Saturday 1 November 2008

Desensitization Masturbation



There is a super-sensitive spot below the head on the bottom of the penis, about the size of a nickel, which usually responds very quickly to stimulation. If you are using a simulator device or a vibrator or a lot of lube, it won't take much to put you over the top when stimulated there. While that's all well and good, if you generally avoid that area, you can prolong fun-time and greatly enhance your pleasure quotient, paradoxical as that may sound.

As it turns out, there are numerous other areas on the penis that respond to stimulation nearly as intensely but not so quickly, and when intensely stimulated, can provide tons of pleasure for long periods. I find that if I spend a lot of time on the pee-hole, glans, and rim of the helmet, for instance, I experience very high-quality sensations that can last a long time, and these sensations are of a quality that is quite different and adds to the total experience greatly. The main area is so dominant, however, that it usually grabs your attention and overshadows the possibilities inherent in these other regions.

The strategy is the exact opposite of lying on your back and placing your penis under a running faucet, which provides extremely strong (and quick) orgasms. While they are intense and very physical, they are over way too quickly - often before you can even really enjoy them. On the other hand, orgasms that take a long time to build and employ lots of stimulation from other areas first can be significantly better in the long run.

You can masturbate vigorously for 45 minutes by avoiding that super-sensitive area, and then stimulate it at the end when you are ready to blow. It takes concentration - your hand just naturally wants to go there - but take this advice and save that for last. Now, something that profound can make life worth living!

If you still ejaculate way too early, here is a Tip*: Put just a tiny dab of maximum strength Ora-Gel (or any other local anesthetic gel used for teeth/gums aches, like "orabase") on that spot 15 to 30 minutes before a session. It takes about an hour to wear off, so try to time it so it wears off just before you finish.
The benzocaine allows you to go at it full force, and it also moves your attention from that area to the other areas of your penis, and allows sensations from these areas to not be overshadowed by sensations from that original area, greatly enhancing the total experience.
Even if you ejaculate before it wears off even a little, it will not compromise the quality of your orgasm. On the contrary, you will feel like you just shot your entire spinal cord out through the head of your penis, and your testicles will be completely and satisfyingly emptied. You have to try this to even begin to believe it (read about a personal experience with this method).

Some varieties of Ora-Gel also have other chemicals that add a menthol-like buzz to the sensation, which is nice.
DO NOT use gel that contain other active ingredient besides benzocaine (or lidocaine) and always read the "package insert" before use.Don't over use the gel either.

Goodluck :)

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